Robert Fettgather is an instructor of Psychology at Mission College in Santa Clara, CA. He is interested in human behavior and observing people.

People watching, the art of observing others in public spaces, can be both entertaining and enlightening. It allows us to gain insights into human behavior, emotions, and interactions. Whether you’re an aspiring writer, psychologist, or simply enjoy the curious observation of others, these tips will help you make the most of your people watching experiences.

Always respect the privacy of others by maintaining a discreet distance and avoiding invasive stares. People watching should never feel like an intrusion into someone’s personal space. Aim to be inconspicuous and blend into the surroundings

Location, location, location! Select a spot that offers a vantage point without being too conspicuous. Ideal locations include parks, cafes, public transport, airports or bustling city squares. Places with diverse crowds will provide a broader range of behaviors to observe

While people watching can be intriguing, remember that you are only observing a snippet of someone’s life. Avoid making sweeping judgments or assumptions based on limited observations. Empathy is crucial in people watching. Try to put yourself in the shoes of the individuals you are observing, understanding their emotions, and motivations behind their actions. And remember, the purpose of people watching is to learn and appreciate the diversity of human behavior, not to confirm preconceived notions.

So, next time you find yourself in a public space, take a moment to sit back, observe, and appreciate the fascinating world of people watching.